CALVIN SMITH’S BOOKSTORE
Ideas to read.
Skills to practice.
Explore books and guided resources for identity, intimacy, relationships, deployment reintegration, and personal growth. Each title opens in the secure Calvin Smith bookstore on Stan Store.
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FEATURED RESOURCES
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Self-paced resources to support reflection, conversation, and practical change.
NEWDating & connection
The Dating IQ Book: What’s Your Dating IQ?
Understanding More about Yourself and Others in Dating.
By Calvin Smith, MA, LPC. A 72-page illustrated PDF with dating scenarios, healthy alternatives, communication guidance, and pre- and post-date reflection exercises.
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01Story & reflection
◐IDENTITY
CONFUSIONTHE STORY · CALVIN SMITH
Identity Confusion — The Story
A story about identity, perception, and the courage to look honestly at the mirrors shaping your life.
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02Trust & honesty
?YOU
WOULDN’T
LIE TO MEWOULD YOU? · CALVIN SMITH
You Wouldn’t Lie to Me…Would You?
A guided look at truth, trust, defensiveness, and the conversations that help relationships become safer.
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03Self-image & intimacy
✦DESIRABLECALVIN SMITH
Desirable
Exercises for seeing yourself with greater compassion and developing a healthier relationship with sexuality and intimacy.
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04Couples & chronic illness
♡RECOVERING
INTIMACYCALVIN SMITH
Recovering Intimacy
A practical guide for couples facing chronic illness together while protecting connection, tenderness, and hope.
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05Relationship education
→AFTER SEX,
WHAT’S NEXT?A COUPLES GUIDE · CALVIN SMITH
After Sex, What’s Next?
A couples guide for the conversations, care, and choices that shape intimacy after the moment has passed.
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06Reintegration & transition
⌂BACK TO
THE BASICSRETURNING FROM DEPLOYMENT · CALVIN SMITH
Back to the Basics
A reintegration workbook for returning service members and families rebuilding routines, connection, and shared understanding.
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